The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Moment 163: Happiness Expert Reveals The One Type Of Person You Should NEVER Date
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May 24, 2024 Arthur C. Brooks, a happiness expert and author, delves into the pitfalls of modern dating. He argues that seeking partners identical to ourselves leads to missed opportunities for growth and connection. Instead, he advocates for embracing complementary traits, like pairing introverts with extroverts for a richer relationship. Brooks also discusses the neurochemistry of love, the paradox of jealousy, and how altruism not only promotes happiness but adds meaning to life. Discover the surprising insights that can transform your approach to love.
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Find Your Complement
- Look for a romantic partner who complements your qualities, not a clone.
- Completing each other leads to happier relationships.
Opposites Attract
- Happy marriages often occur between people with different qualities, like introverts and extroverts.
- Dating apps are unsuccessful because people seek clones, limiting happiness and attraction.
Steven's Spiritual Journey
- Steven Bartlett's girlfriend introduced him to spirituality, which he never sought but now loves.
- She complements him, enhancing his life and beliefs.