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Moment 163: Happiness Expert Reveals The One Type Of Person You Should NEVER Date

May 24, 2024
Arthur C. Brooks, a happiness expert and author, delves into the pitfalls of modern dating. He argues that seeking partners identical to ourselves leads to missed opportunities for growth and connection. Instead, he advocates for embracing complementary traits, like pairing introverts with extroverts for a richer relationship. Brooks also discusses the neurochemistry of love, the paradox of jealousy, and how altruism not only promotes happiness but adds meaning to life. Discover the surprising insights that can transform your approach to love.
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Quick takeaways

  • Seek a partner who complements, not mirrors, your qualities for successful relationships.
  • Embracing differences between partners leads to personal growth and fulfillment in relationships.

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Finding Your Compliment in Dating Markets

In the dating world, the mistake many people make is seeking a clone of themselves instead of a compliment. Happy relationships often involve introverts and extroverts learning to appreciate each other's differences. Dating apps can lead to dissatisfaction when individuals match with those similar to them, creating a lack of attraction. Embracing differences can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.

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