

The Dating Episode
13 snips Jul 1, 2021
Dating and relationship coach Cora Boyd, known for helping millennials decode their love lives, joins to share her insights on dating in the modern world. She discusses the importance of authenticity on dating apps and the nuances of flirting. Cora emphasizes emotional intelligence and the value of genuine connections over superficial tactics. She also highlights how the pandemic has reshaped dating dynamics, urging listeners to reflect on their attachment styles while navigating intimate relationships.
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Matchmaker Walked Out On Her
- Naomi recalled her roommate's dating service disaster when a man walked out saying she looked different.
- The story illustrates how crude rejection can cause genuine dating trauma and shame.
Authenticity Over People-Pleasing
- Cora learned matchmaking showed her that you can't please everyone and dating reveals who you're truly compatible with.
- She emphasizes authenticity and highlighting your values rather than contorting to be liked.
Reframe Rejection As Redirection
- Reframe rejection as redirection to remove shame and keep dating momentum.
- Ask for what you want and see non-reciprocation as a sign to move on, not a failure.