Dr Emily, Psychologist and expert in risk-taking behavior, discusses the importance of facing risks for a fulfilling life. She highlights how avoiding risks is the biggest risk of all, offering strategies to embrace risk. The podcast explores overcoming self-doubt in creativity, productivity in classical music, and the cultural impact of risk-taking. It delves into embracing discomfort for growth and making decisions aligned with personal values.
Embracing discomfort leads to personal growth and development.
Making decisions based on values leads to a more fulfilling life.
Deep dives
Being Open to Discomfort Leads to Growth
Being open to discomfort, rather than avoiding it, can lead to personal growth and development. Embracing discomfort means allowing oneself to feel and experience challenging emotions without resisting or trying to eliminate them. This approach can lead to valuable insights and opportunities for self-improvement.
Making Choices Based on Values
Making decisions based on personal values rather than fear can lead to a more fulfilling life. The choice point framework helps individuals navigate difficult choices by aligning their actions with their core values. By prioritizing behaviors that are consistent with their values, individuals can lead a life that is in line with what truly matters to them.
The Importance of Taking Risks
Taking risks, even when faced with discomfort, can open up new opportunities and experiences. Avoiding risks may lead to missed chances for growth and personal development. By acknowledging discomfort as a natural part of growth, individuals can push through challenges and reach their full potential.
Learning from Past Regrets
Regretting missed opportunities due to playing it safe can be a powerful lesson for future decision-making. Looking back on past choices and considering what might have been different if risks were taken can inspire individuals to embrace discomfort and uncertainty in the present. Addressing regrets from inaction can fuel a desire for positive change and growth.
Embracing the Journey of Self-Discovery
Exploring one's core values and desires can lead to a deeper understanding of personal motivations and aspirations. Delving into childhood interests and passions can provide valuable insights into present-day goals. Embracing discomfort as part of the journey towards self-discovery can help individuals lead a more authentic and purposeful life.
Taking a risk, by definition, is hard. A lot of us spend most of our life avoiding risks, under the assumption that it’s the ‘safe’ thing to do.
As Dr Em explains, we have an evolutionary instinct for self-preservation; tendencies to overestimate danger and underestimate our ability to cope; and we often have early childhood experiences and messages around safety that can coalesce into ‘playing it safe’ behaviours.
In this episode, Dr Em reveals that paradoxically, if we spend our whole life avoiding risk, then we are guaranteeing a less engaged, less fulfilling, less ‘lived’ life than we are capable of. That in fact, avoiding risk, is the biggest risk of all.
Dr Em, also offers strategies to guide us in the direction of letting a little more risk into our everyday lives.
The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.