The Dr. John Delony Show

Will Our Sex Life Be Better After We Get Married?

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Mar 10, 2023
A man wonders if intimacy will improve after marriage, while a woman discovers her husband's long-held secret. Delving into emotional connections, the podcast emphasizes the importance of safety and understanding in relationships. It explores childhood trauma's impact on intimacy and highlights the need for trust and communication. Listeners gain insights on navigating anxiety and rebuilding connections, along with recommendations for literature that can guide couples in their journey toward a healthier bond.
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INSIGHT

Intimacy Is More Than Sex

  • Intimacy is not just intercourse; it varies by person and culture.
  • Many women need emotional safety and connection as a prerequisite for physical intimacy.
ADVICE

Create Safety to Build Intimacy

  • Prioritize creating an environment of safety to encourage openness with your partner.
  • Read 'Come As You Are' and 'The Five Love Languages' to improve communication and intimacy.
ADVICE

Acknowledge Your Role in Conflict

  • Say to your partner: "I've created a world where I’m on offense and you are on defense."
  • Commit to healing and making your partner feel safe before marriage.
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