Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

34. “It’s unromantic if my boyfriend doesn’t pay for date night”

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Mar 15, 2022
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INSIGHT

Gender Roles Fuel Money Tensions

  • Hidden gender role expectations cause unspoken tensions about money in relationships.
  • These unspoken expectations often create resentment and misunderstandings in couples.
INSIGHT

Money Talks Feel Unromantic

  • Talking about money before a date night feels "unromantic" and damps the mood for some couples.
  • The traditional act of the man paying is linked to feelings of being loved and special for one partner.
ADVICE

Create Rules of Thumb for Spending

  • Develop simple "rules of thumb" to decide who pays for what to avoid financial fights.
  • Agree in advance on spending limits for dinners to keep romance intact and avoid awkward conversations.
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