

34. “It’s unromantic if my boyfriend doesn’t pay for date night”
12 snips Mar 15, 2022
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Gender Roles Fuel Money Tensions
- Hidden gender role expectations cause unspoken tensions about money in relationships.
- These unspoken expectations often create resentment and misunderstandings in couples.
Money Talks Feel Unromantic
- Talking about money before a date night feels "unromantic" and damps the mood for some couples.
- The traditional act of the man paying is linked to feelings of being loved and special for one partner.
Create Rules of Thumb for Spending
- Develop simple "rules of thumb" to decide who pays for what to avoid financial fights.
- Agree in advance on spending limits for dinners to keep romance intact and avoid awkward conversations.