Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

Ramit Sethi
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58 snips
Aug 26, 2025 • 1h 31min

223. “We make $81k/yr in our 30s. Is that enough?”

Becca and Nikki tackle the complexities of merging their finances as they plan their wedding. Becca's meticulous tracking contrasts with Nikki's more relaxed spending approach, creating a dynamic tension. They confront high fixed costs, student debt, and the emotional baggage of childhood money lessons. Ramit challenges them to communicate better and redefine their roles in managing money. With aspirations for a fulfilling partnership, they explore strategies for financial stability and envision a shared future of wealth-building.
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40 snips
Aug 19, 2025 • 1h 35min

222. “My husband is my 4th child. Will he ever help?”

Fernanda and Jorge share their struggles with financial stress, juggling three children, one with special needs, and a staggering debt of $350,000. While Fernanda manages the finances, her health declines under the burden, leaving her yearning for a cooperative partnership. Jorge's laid-back approach leads to financial avoidance, causing tensions. They confront their spending habits, emotional tolls, and ineffective communication about money. Ramit challenges them to break old patterns and create a more sustainable future together.
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67 snips
Aug 12, 2025 • 1h 30min

221. “I’m almost 40 and still living paycheck to paycheck”

A couple grapples with a cycle of financial stress despite a solid income. One partner bears the weight of future planning while the other avoids responsibility, perpetuating old habits. Their hidden savings and chaotic investment decisions further complicate matters. Discussing their emotional landscape reveals how childhood experiences shape their money mindsets. Will they redefine generosity without spending excessively? Together, they explore trust, communication, and practical strategies to rebuild their relationship with finances.
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55 snips
Aug 5, 2025 • 1h 36min

220. “I carry the baby, the bills, and the stress”

Monica and Michael face the storms of new parenthood and financial stress, with Monica feeling overwhelmed as she shoulders most responsibilities. Michael grapples with shame over past financial missteps, including an eviction. After a significant salary increase, he struggles to communicate effectively, leaving Monica questioning their partnership. The discussion unveils their emotional disconnect and the need for transparency as they navigate financial planning together, highlighting the importance of honest communication to rebuild trust.
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32 snips
Jul 29, 2025 • 1h 21min

219. “He’s so cheap it’s killing our joy”

Angela and Brian navigate a classic couple's clash over money: she dreams of travel while he obsesses over saving for a mythical $1 million retirement. Their impressive net worth contradicts Brian's fears of scarcity. Discover how decades-old financial beliefs can drift relationships apart and mask deeper emotional needs. They explore the cost of frugality and how keeping score on sacrifices erodes connection. With guidance, they seek to align their definitions of a 'Rich Life' and enhance their bond beyond the budget.
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46 snips
Jul 22, 2025 • 1h 3min

218. “Our childcare costs are about to quadruple. Are we screwed?” (Part 2)

A couple grapples with rising childcare costs and communication breakdowns in their finances. As they explore their emotional dynamics, the strain of their Arizona home symbolizes broader financial challenges. Dominique's struggle with overthinking complicates their situation, while Chris's disengagement creates resentment. The conversation shifts to the pitfalls of whole life insurance and the importance of strategic financial planning. With just two months of savings, they must confront their reality and begin building a healthier financial future together.
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89 snips
Jul 15, 2025 • 1h 22min

217. “Are we broke…or just bad with money? (Part 1)

Dominique and Chris confront the financial strains threatening their relationship. Dominique juggles parenting and finances while Chris struggles with money conversations, causing trust issues. The pressures of rising costs and shared debt weigh heavily, prompting thoughts of co-parenting alone. Their differing approaches to financial planning reveal emotional conflicts and the importance of communication. As they face these challenges, Ramit encourages them to take immediate action to secure their future together.
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21 snips
Jul 8, 2025 • 1h 16min

216. I track every penny. He gambles. Should I marry him?

A high-earning dentist grapples with trust issues as her partner's gambling history stirs financial anxiety. They clash over saving versus spending, with childhood experiences shaping their opposing money mindsets. Transparency is strained by hidden purchases, leading to resentment and unequal power dynamics. As they confront their differences, they must navigate the emotional toll of financial secrets and insecurities. Can they bridge the gap before contemplating marriage, or is their relationship destined for a financial fallout?
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44 snips
Jul 1, 2025 • 1h 33min

215. “He wants a house, I don’t want to go bankrupt.”

Athena and Arie face a financial crossroads in their new marriage, revealing deep-seated tensions about homeownership and freedom. Arie’s desire for stability clashes with Athena's fear of financial constraints, shaped by their contrasting upbringings. The couple’s separate finances and differing spending philosophies come to light, underscoring the need for open communication. They confront emotional barriers, redefine their financial futures, and ultimately seek a balance that prioritizes love while grappling with their financial reality.
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35 snips
Jun 24, 2025 • 59min

214. “I’m 45 but my parents still control my money”

A couple confronts the fallout of a poorly managed trust fund, revealing $5 million at risk due to high fees and emotional avoidance. They explore how childhood beliefs shape their financial identities, grappling with shame, fear, and the need for autonomy. Ramit encourages them to imagine a future where money empowers their dreams rather than controls them. Discussions touches on the balance of independence and parental influence, as they strategize to reclaim financial agency and redefine their relationship with wealth.

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