Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

Ramit Sethi
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9 snips
Oct 7, 2025 • 1h 38min

229.  “I’m almost 50 and have nothing to show for my life”

Christine and Thad are drowning in $340,000 of debt, with conflicting money mindsets causing friction. Christine feels overwhelmed managing finances, while Thad's carefree spending exacerbates their problems. They confront their financial reality, including unreported student loans and spending habits. Childhood lessons on money shape their views, revealing deep-seated shame. Ramit pushes them to reassess their approach, emphasizing proportional expenses, urgency in increasing income, and the necessity of major lifestyle changes to avoid dire consequences.
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6 snips
Sep 30, 2025 • 1h 38min

228. “I’m 30, broke, and tired of budgeting”

A couple grapples with $40,000 in debt while trying to balance their financial roles. Kristen feels trapped, meticulously tracking every expense, while Josh adopts a more carefree attitude, leading to tension. They discover that 82% of their income vanishes into fixed costs, leaving little room for fun. Insights into their contrasting childhood money lessons reveal how these experiences shape their current habits. With practical guidance, they explore ways to increase earnings and reduce unnecessary spending to reclaim their financial freedom.
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65 snips
Sep 23, 2025 • 1h 20min

227. “We bought our dream house. Now we’re drowning”

Jason and Katie's dream home has turned into a financial nightmare, trapping them in a cycle of debt despite their high income. They grapple with the hidden costs of homeownership, including unexpected expenses that threaten their financial stability. Daily money talks leave them exhausted, especially with Jason's cash flow obsession clouding their judgment. Childhood lessons about money influence their spending, complicating their parenting journey. Can they break free from their repeating patterns and discover a path to financial security?
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66 snips
Sep 16, 2025 • 1h 36min

226. “She’s chasing FIRE. I want to enjoy life now.”

Laura and Cameron, earning over $200,000, struggle with financial rules and differing life priorities. Laura’s childhood trauma fuels her scarcity mindset, while Cameron feels like a passive player in their finances. They grapple with the quest for balance between saving for the future and enjoying life now, including the possibility of expanding their family. Through open conversations, they aim to overcome financial anxiety and rediscover fun, shifting from strict saving to shared experiences that enrich their lives.
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25 snips
Sep 9, 2025 • 1h 38min

225. “We’re losing $5k/mo. Where is it all going?”

Meet Lashan and David, a couple grappling with a sudden income drop of $5,000 a month due to early retirement. Dive into Lashan's controlling nature regarding finances as she faces the emotional weight of past hardships. Discover how David's passive approach clashes with their financial reality, making him the 'ignorant reassurer.' The duo's journey reveals the complexity of managing money, with Ramit's insights challenging them to redefine their financial roles and build a more sustainable partnership.
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57 snips
Sep 2, 2025 • 1h 33min

224. “I took on debt to help my family. Now she won’t marry me.”

Rachel and Pierre's relationship is on the rocks due to Pierre's $60,000 debt from a failed business. Rachel, cautious about finances, demands a clear plan before marriage, highlighting stark differences in their debt perspectives. Emotional ties to money shape their communication challenges, with Pierre feeling obligated to support family despite the burden. As they navigate cultural expectations and past experiences that impact their financial decisions, Ramit steps in with strategies to tackle the debt and foster open dialogues for a healthier relationship.
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78 snips
Aug 26, 2025 • 1h 31min

223. “We make $81k/yr in our 30s. Is that enough?”

Becca and Nikki tackle the complexities of merging their finances as they plan their wedding. Becca's meticulous tracking contrasts with Nikki's more relaxed spending approach, creating a dynamic tension. They confront high fixed costs, student debt, and the emotional baggage of childhood money lessons. Ramit challenges them to communicate better and redefine their roles in managing money. With aspirations for a fulfilling partnership, they explore strategies for financial stability and envision a shared future of wealth-building.
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42 snips
Aug 19, 2025 • 1h 35min

222. “My husband is my 4th child. Will he ever help?”

Fernanda and Jorge share their struggles with financial stress, juggling three children, one with special needs, and a staggering debt of $350,000. While Fernanda manages the finances, her health declines under the burden, leaving her yearning for a cooperative partnership. Jorge's laid-back approach leads to financial avoidance, causing tensions. They confront their spending habits, emotional tolls, and ineffective communication about money. Ramit challenges them to break old patterns and create a more sustainable future together.
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67 snips
Aug 12, 2025 • 1h 30min

221. “I’m almost 40 and still living paycheck to paycheck”

A couple grapples with a cycle of financial stress despite a solid income. One partner bears the weight of future planning while the other avoids responsibility, perpetuating old habits. Their hidden savings and chaotic investment decisions further complicate matters. Discussing their emotional landscape reveals how childhood experiences shape their money mindsets. Will they redefine generosity without spending excessively? Together, they explore trust, communication, and practical strategies to rebuild their relationship with finances.
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55 snips
Aug 5, 2025 • 1h 36min

220. “I carry the baby, the bills, and the stress”

Monica and Michael face the storms of new parenthood and financial stress, with Monica feeling overwhelmed as she shoulders most responsibilities. Michael grapples with shame over past financial missteps, including an eviction. After a significant salary increase, he struggles to communicate effectively, leaving Monica questioning their partnership. The discussion unveils their emotional disconnect and the need for transparency as they navigate financial planning together, highlighting the importance of honest communication to rebuild trust.

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