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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

2169: Five Reasons We Talk “At” Each Other And How To Listen by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Communication Skills

May 12, 2024
11:10
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Dr. Margaret Rutherford discusses improving communication skills by highlighting common listening barriers in relationships. She emphasizes staying curious, being present, focusing on the message, avoiding distractions, and asking questions. The power of active listening can bridge gaps, foster understanding, and enhance relationship dynamics.
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  • Improving communication involves staying curious and actively listening to break free from talking at each other.
  • Enhancing listening skills includes staying present, addressing tone issues, minimizing distractions, and clarifying intentions for better communication.

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Importance of Listening in Communication

Listening plays a crucial role in effective communication within relationships. When couples struggle to communicate, it often stems from talking at each other rather than truly listening. This lack of listening leads to misunderstandings, assumptions, and an inability to connect on a deeper level. By actively listening and staying curious about your partner's thoughts and feelings, you can break the cycle of talking at each other and improve the quality of communication.

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