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101. How to Date More Intentionally in the New Year | Featuring Our Boyfriends (Part 2)
Dec 12, 2024
In this engaging discussion, Justin, Jess DeBakey's boyfriend, shares insights on navigating the modern dating scene. They debate how long to chat on dating apps before meeting up and who should take the initiative to ask someone out. They delve into whether to have sex on the first date, highlighting the need for mutual understanding and intentionality. Additionally, Justin and Jess share humorous dating app stories that bring a light-hearted touch to the complexities of romantic connections.
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- Transitioning from online messaging to in-person dates is vital to avoid prolonged 'pen pal' dynamics and clarify mutual interest.
- The dynamics of who asks whom on a date matter less than the genuine interest and connection between both parties involved.
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The Importance of Timely Transition from Messaging to Dates
Establishing a smooth transition from online messaging to in-person dates is crucial for successful dating. Engaging in prolonged conversations on dating apps can lead to a 'pen pal' scenario, where communication lacks clarity regarding mutual interest. It is suggested to move off the app and exchange numbers after a few days of messaging once rapport has been established. This strategy prevents wasted time and allows both parties to gauge interest quickly, maximizing the chances of setting up a successful date.
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