That's A Gay Ass Podcast "F*cking My Friends" w/ Aidan Wharton
Jan 12, 2026
Aidan Wharton, an actor-turned-writer and creator of the Gay Buffet Substack, candidly discusses his experiences with queer relationships, from his nervousness about threesomes to the dynamics of an open marriage. He recalls his first boy-boy kiss and shares tips on how to initiate sexual encounters with friends. The conversation dives into touring with Wicked, the pressures of body image in the gay community, and memorable hookup stories, including a spontaneous Grindr encounter during a snowstorm.
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Match Hair Care To Your Hair Type
- Do balance hair-washing to your hair type rather than frequency advice from others.
- Aidan says he washes about half his showers due to fine, short hair and after haircuts.
Fitness Built By Discipline On Tour
- Touring taught Aidan discipline and how to adapt workouts with limited equipment.
- PrideFit emphasized mental resilience and consistency beyond aesthetics.
Wicked Tour And Queer Representation
- Aidan toured in Wicked as Elvis and covered Fiero, enjoying the queer visibility of the role.
- He cherished DMs from trans and non-binary fans moved by seeing that representation.
