How to initiate sex with a friend

this week, actor-turned-writer Aidan Wharton (known for "Gay Buffet" on Substack) gets vulnerable about f*cking his friends, tour hook-ups, and more.

to watch the full interview, head to substack.com/@ericwillz

there, we discuss:

-- WICKED on tour (and his iconic line)

-- why threesomes make him nervous

-- growing up in hawaii

-- asking friends to make out (and how to do it without ruining everything)

-- how touring reshaped his relationship to casual sex

-- his first boy-boy kiss (and why it was so formative)

-- steam room cruising and sauna nerves

plus, we get into bush length, topping vs bottoming, dick pics, and what a truly hot hookup looks like in 2026.

Full Episode: substack.com/@ericwillz

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and get tickets to my solo show in Chicago, SF, NY, Seattle, and LA

love yew,

Eric