Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 976

Jul 15, 2025
A woman grapples with an unintended pregnancy while navigating her husband's strong anti-abortion beliefs. Discover the drama of accidents in BDSM, highlighted by a cautionary tale that stresses communication and trust. A husband recovering from an accident seeks ways to maintain intimacy despite physical limitations, with insights from a queer disability advocate. Finally, a man in an open relationship questions why his wife avoids oral sex with him but not with her boyfriend, sparking discussions on sexual dynamics and relationship preferences.
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INSIGHT

Non-Binary Identity Doesn't Absolve Responsibility

  • Identifying as non-binary doesn't absolve one from considering power, privilege, and consent.
  • Socialization and hormones still shape behaviors regardless of queer identity.
ADVICE

Sometimes Sparing Partner Is Caring

  • You can choose to spare your partner from burdensome knowledge when it causes harm and you alone bear it.
  • A partner's religious opposition to abortion doesn't grant them veto power; you have the final decision.
ADVICE

BDSM Accidents Require Risk Awareness

  • In high-risk BDSM, absolute accident prevention is unrealistic, but risk-awareness and care are essential.
  • When mistakes happen, communicate and learn rather than blame for growth and trust rebuilding.
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