The Mel Robbins Podcast

The “It” Factor: How to Hack Charisma & Use Body Language to Boost Your Influence, Income, and Impact

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Dec 1, 2022
In this enlightening discussion, bestselling author and behavioral researcher Vanessa Van Edwards reveals the secrets of charisma—an essential skill anyone can master. She shares how warmth and competence can dramatically influence personal and professional interactions. Learn the three crucial actions to take within the first ten seconds of a video call, tips to ace interviews, and how to confidently ask for a raise. Discover how body language and vocal tone elevate your presence and impact, transforming your communication style for greater success.
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ADVICE

Show Your Hands

  • Show your hands in the first second of a video call to deactivate fear processing.
  • This stems from a primal survival mechanism related to assessing threats.
ADVICE

Camera Distance

  • Maintain a distance of 1.5 feet between your nose and the camera on video calls.
  • Closer proximity signals intimacy, appropriate only for personal interactions, not professional ones.
ADVICE

Avoid Uptalk

  • Avoid uptalk (question inflection) in your voice, especially on your name or crucial information.
  • Uptalk makes you sound less confident and competent, shifting listeners to scrutinize.
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