How To! Supercommunicators | 1. How to Talk to Anyone
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Feb 22, 2025 
In this engaging discussion, psychology professor Nick Epley shares insights on how deep questions can transform conversations and create genuine connections. Mandy Len Catron reflects on her viral essay about the 36 questions that can lead to love, exploring the nuances of intimacy and vulnerability. Together, they highlight the importance of curiosity in fostering meaningful relationships, revealing how asking the right questions can turn everyday chats into profound exchanges. Dive into the art of heartfelt communication and discover new ways to connect!
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Nick Epley's DUIs
- Nick Epley's bad choices as a teen, including two DUIs, led him to reflect on communication.
- His parents' shift from lecturing to asking "why" questions sparked a change in him.
Power of "Why" Questions
- Not all questions have the same impact; some are more powerful than others.
- Epley's parents' questions, focusing on "why," sparked his interest in the power of questions.
Fast Friends Procedure Experiment
- The 'Fast Friends Procedure' involves 36 escalating intimacy questions.
- In an experiment, 70% of strangers sought further connection post-experiment, some even marrying.
