On Purpose with Jay Shetty Jay & Radhi Talk About the Pressure and Expectations Around Parenthood
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Nov 1, 2025 Jay and Radhi dive deep into the pressures surrounding parenthood. They discuss the often painful implications of the question, “When are you having kids?” and how societal expectations can overshadow personal readiness. Insights into delayed parenthood reveal that many are prioritizing their careers and finances. The duo highlights the emotional toll of fertility struggles, advocating for sensitive conversations. They emphasize that true fulfillment in parenting—or alternative routes—comes from aligning with one's unique journey instead of societal timelines.
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Question Assumes Desire And Ability
- Asking "When are you going to have kids?" assumes everyone wants and can have children and misses the real question of desire.
- Jay Shetty says it's an insensitive, unthoughtful question that often comes from assumption, not understanding.
Later Parenthood Is Becoming Normal
- Radhi highlights the biological clock and cultural messaging that pressure women to have children earlier.
- Jay notes statistics show first-child age is rising, so delayed parenthood is increasingly normal.
Friends' IVF And Miscarriage Struggles
- Jay shares friends who've endured multiple IVF rounds and miscarriages and face painful reminders when asked about kids.
- He stresses many people silently struggle and that question can be emotionally damaging.
