187. Is Fear Running Your Life?

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Mar 17, 2024

Fear can be a powerful motivator, influencing decisions and personal growth. The discussion highlights personal stories and the experiences of athletes to show how acknowledging fear can lead to courage. Listeners learn about exposure therapy and its effectiveness in overcoming phobias. A compelling exploration examines the life of someone who can't feel fear, raising questions about the necessity of fear in our lives. Additionally, insights into balancing routines and spontaneity in relationships offer practical takeaways for strengthening connections.

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Fear vs. Improvement

Mike Munger's brother, a doctor, compared two surgeons, one motivated by fear and the other by continual improvement.
The fear-driven surgeon was cautious and slow, while the improvement-driven surgeon constantly sought better methods.

INSIGHT

Fear and High Achievers

Angela Duckworth was surprised to find that some high achievers are motivated by fear of failure.
This challenges the assumption that they are solely driven by approach motivation.

INSIGHT

Fear as a Signal

Fear is a signal that something bad could happen in the future.
Ignoring fear can be problematic, as it provides valuable information.

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