153. Dr. Robert Glover | Unlocking the Secrets of Masculine and Feminine Needs

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Oct 29, 2024

In this engaging discussion, guest Dr. Robert Glover, a seasoned therapist and author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy,” shares his insights on the balance between masculine and feminine dynamics. He highlights the need for men to seek support from other men for personal growth and accountability. The conversation delves into the intricacies of intimacy and how societal expectations can skew our perspectives on relationships. Additionally, Dr. Glover emphasizes the importance of vulnerability among men and the lifelong journey of understanding one’s emotional needs.

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INSIGHT

Relationships as Growth Machines

Intimate relationships are powerful personal growth machines when we pay attention.
Common expectations about relationships are often wrong due to unrealistic cultural myths and biological programming.

INSIGHT

Masculine and Feminine Energies

Masculine energy strives to do and solve problems; feminine energy is receptive and must be constantly filled.
Balancing and consciously caring for both energies in ourselves leads to healthier relationships and personal wellbeing.

ADVICE

Use Accountability for Needs

Build cooperative reciprocal relationships to get your needs met and maintain accountability.
Regularly share feelings with supportive groups to prevent resentments and acting out in isolation.

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