How To! How To Talk to Contractors (With Sam Sanders and Mercury Stardust)
Nov 4, 2025
Join journalist Sam Sanders, a fresh homeowner grappling with DIY fears, and Mercury Stardust, the Trans Handyman and home improvement expert. They dive into the nuances of talking to contractors, discussing everything from understanding power dynamics to leveraging multiple bids for better deals. Mercury emphasizes trusting your instincts when vetting contractors and discovering how local networks can be invaluable. They explore the emotional barriers to DIY, revealing that starting small can build confidence and skills. A must-listen for hesitant homeowners!
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Homes Carry Generational Baggage
- Houses carry generational decisions and neglect that compound over time.
- Stopping small problems early prevents major, expensive repairs later.
Even Pros Play A Role To Fit In
- Mercury described putting on dirty overalls to appear 'butch' around construction workers despite industry experience.
- She confessed even experienced queer tradespeople feel self-conscious around crews.
You’re The Client, Not The Hireling
- Remember you hold the power: you pay for the work, so you call the shots.
- If a contractor talks down to you or you don't vibe, don't hire them.
