How To! How To Lose Your ‘Virginity’ at 43
Mar 11, 2025
Nicole Hardy, author of "Confessions of a Latter-day Virgin," shares her insights on embracing sexuality later in life after leaving the Mormon Church. She explores Elizabeth's journey as a 43-year-old seeking intimacy, navigating the emotional complexities of celibacy and societal pressures. The conversation also touches on the significance of self-discovery and overcoming religious trauma, offering advice on building healthy connections and reclaiming power. Their candid discussion promotes empowerment, curiosity, and the joy of embracing intimacy.
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Elizabeth's Story
- Elizabeth, 43, recently left the Mormon Church after a lifelong membership.
- She now wants to explore her sexuality for the first time and seeks guidance.
Mormon Church and Sexuality
- The Mormon Church emphasizes marriage and expects celibacy outside of it.
- This can create feelings of being stunted, especially for those who remain unmarried.
Suppressed Sexuality
- Elizabeth describes the Church's emphasis on obedience and distrusting oneself.
- This made her suppress her sexual urges, as they conflicted with Church teachings.
