Financial Feminist 209. Power: What it *Truly* Is (Plus a 10-second Practice to Help You Get It) with Kasia Urbaniak
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Jan 21, 2025 
Kasia Urbaniak, a former professional dominatrix and women's empowerment coach, shares her insights on reclaiming power and personal agency. She discusses how societal norms often lead women to shy away from leadership, offering practical strategies to boost confidence. The conversation dives into the dynamics of asking for what you deserve and the importance of self-care. Kasia emphasizes the significance of acknowledging inner desires and overcoming emotional barriers, all while advocating for women’s financial independence and assertiveness in various settings.
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Dominatrix to Empowerment Coach
- Kasia Urbaniak entered the dominatrix profession at 19, primarily driven by financial needs and a desire for empowerment.
- This experience unexpectedly led her to analyze client behavior, eventually transitioning into teaching women about power dynamics.
Power of Attention
- A dominatrix's power comes from focused attention and identifying resistance, not necessarily from harshness or control.
- Genuine curiosity and attention can reveal hidden vulnerabilities and create deeper connections, even in power dynamics.
Beyond Fixed Identities
- Fixed identities limit imagination and choices, hindering free will.
- Exploring different roles and personas reveals a multifaceted self with more options than initially perceived.
