
Financial Feminist
Fight the patriarchy. Get Rich.™ Join money expert Tori Dunlap as she guides you on how to make more, spend less, and feel financially confident in a world run by rich white men. Through solo episodes and special guest interviews, you’ll walk away with resources to get, save, and grow money to gain financial freedom and kick some patriarchal ass at the same time. New episodes drop every Monday, and mini-episodes drop every other Thursday.
Latest episodes

Jun 26, 2025 • 42min
241. If You’re Disillusioned with Politics, Listen to This (How 25-Year-Old Deja Foxx is Not Letting Age Keep Her From Changing the World)
If you’ve ever looked at the state of politics and thought, “What’s the point?”—this conversation is the reminder you need. I sat down with powerhouse activist Deja Foxx, who at just 25 is running for Congress in Arizona’s 7th district. She’s not just talking about change—she’s out there knocking on doors, refusing corporate PAC money, and pushing bold, progressive policies that impact real people, especially those who’ve been left behind by the system. We talk about the true cost of running for office, why reproductive rights are a financial issue, and what it actually takes to shake up a broken political system. If you’ve been feeling disillusioned with politics, Deja will remind you of what’s possible when we center lived experience and refuse to wait our turn.
Deja’s links:
Website: https://dejafoxx.com/
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/political-change-deja-foxx/
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Jun 23, 2025 • 1h 19min
240. The Cost of Ambition (and Why It’s Still Worth It) with Danielle Robay
If you've ever felt like your ambition made people uncomfortable—or worse, made you question your worth—this episode is for you. In this episode I sat down with journalist and content creator Danielle Robay, to talk about what it means to own your ambition in a world that constantly tries to shrink you. Dubbed The Queen of Questions, she has interviewed everyone from Taylor Swift to Michael B. Jordan, and today she’s talking with us about everything from asking better questions to navigating the spiritual cost of going after big dreams.
Danielle’s links:
Website:www.daniellerobay.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/owning-your-ambition-danielle-robay/
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Jun 16, 2025 • 1h 23min
239. The Cost of Being Trans with Ash Perez
Ash Perez, a Cuban-Korean-Filipino writer and openly trans man, shares his powerful journey through gender transition and financial realities. He candidly discusses the often-overlooked costs, from surgeries to lost job opportunities. Ash emphasizes the need for genuine support from cisgender allies while navigating societal expectations. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of transitioning and the importance of empathy and representation in fostering understanding. Listeners will gain insight into the complexities of identity, financial survival, and the pursuit of authentic joy.

Jun 9, 2025 • 1h 12min
238. How to Be a Rich Girl (Without Selling Your Soul) with Katie Gatti Tassin
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What does it really mean to be a “rich girl”—and can we pursue wealth without sacrificing our values or our mental health? In this episode, I sit down with one of my favorite personal finance girlies, Katie Gatti Tassin, founder of Money with Katie and author of Rich Girl Nation. Katie and I dive into what it means to define success on your own terms and how to untangle your identity from your income. We talk about the dangers of tying self-worth to productivity, the role of privilege in financial success, and how to build wealth while still staying grounded in rest, joy, and community. This isn’t about toxic hustle or selling your soul for a dollar—it’s about building a life that’s rich in more ways than one. If you’ve ever wondered whether your drive for financial freedom is helping you thrive—or quietly burning you out—this episode is for you.
Katie’s links:
Website: https://moneywithkatie.com/
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-be-a-rich-girl-katie-gatti-tassin/
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Netsuite
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Jun 5, 2025 • 28min
237. 5 Sneaky Money Mindsets Sabotaging Your Financial Goals
Explore the five sneaky money mindsets that could be sabotaging your financial aspirations. Discover how deeply-rooted beliefs and excuses can keep you from achieving your goals. Learn about the importance of prioritizing long-term rewards over instant gratification. Challenge the misconceptions between millionaires and billionaires and shift your mindset toward empowerment. This enlightening discussion provides essential strategies to break free from mental blocks and take charge of your financial journey.

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Jun 2, 2025 • 57min
236. Is Capitalism Ruining My Sex Life? With Queer Sex Therapist Casey Tanner
Casey Tanner, an AASECT certified sex therapist and author of "Feel It All," explores the intersections of capitalism, sexual intimacy, and identity. They discuss how productivity obsession and purity culture influence not just finances but also personal relationships with sex. The conversation dives into the impact of societal pressures and past traumas on intimacy, advocating for open dialogue about gender dynamics and pleasure. Listeners are invited to reflect on their beliefs while learning strategies to revive excitement in long-term relationships.

May 26, 2025 • 56min
235. Study Hall: Home Buying
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Class is back in session! In this special ‘Study Hall’ episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make––home buying. We’ve packed this episode with some of our best conversations on renting vs. buying—including insights from Ramit Sethi, Kate Wood from NerdWallet, and Redfin’s Chief Economist Daryl Fairweather. Whether you’re trying to decide if homeownership makes sense for you, want to better understand mortgages, or need permission to not buy a house right now, this episode is your comprehensive guide to one of life’s biggest financial moves. Let’s bust some myths, talk strategy, and help you decide what’s right for your real life—not someone else’s version of success.
Mentioned in this episode:
What You Need to Know About Mortgages with NerdWallet’s Kate Wood:
https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-get-a-mortgage/
How to Live Your Rich Life with Ramit Sethi: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/rich-life-ramit-sethi/
Will the Housing Market Ever Get Better? with Daryl Fairweather: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/162-will-the-housing-market-ever-get-better-with-daryl-fairweather-redfin-chief-economist/
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/235-study-hall-home-buying/
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Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod
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Special thanks to our sponsors:
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Netsuite
If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD.
Masterclass
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May 22, 2025 • 1h 6min
234. Financial Scarcity, Debt, and Shame: How to Start Fresh with Natalia Brown (National Debt Relief)
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I know firsthand how heavy financial scarcity can feel—especially when you’re dealing with debt. It’s not just numbers on a screen; it’s fear, shame, and anxiety that can leave you frozen in place. In this episode, I’m joined by Natalia Brown, Chief Compliance and Consumer Affairs Officer at National Debt Relief, who not only brings professional expertise, but powerful lived experience growing up in Harlem and navigating financial hardship herself.
We talk about the real, raw emotional toll of debt—from the societal stigma to the psychological patterns that keep us stuck. Natalia breaks down predatory lending, payday loan traps, and how to know if debt consolidation or settlement is right for you. We also dive into something so many of us feel but rarely name: financial dysmorphia. This episode is full of judgment-free, actionable advice on how to reclaim your financial power and begin again—with clarity, compassion, and a solid plan.
Natalia’s links:
For more information on a variety of debt topics, feel free to visit National Debt Relief’s Resource page for more information on individual debt situations: https://www.nationaldebtrelief.com/resources/
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/234-financial-scarcity-debt-and-shame-how-to-start-fresh-with-natalia-brown-national-debt-relief/
Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod
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Special thanks to our sponsors:
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Rocket Money
Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD.
Quince
For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
Netsuite
If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD.
Masterclass
Get an additional 15% off any annual membership at Masterclass.com/FFPOD.
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May 19, 2025 • 1h 22min
233. Investing 101 with JL Collins
JL Collins, the 'godfather of financial independence' and author of The Simple Path to Wealth, shares his wealth of knowledge on investing. He emphasizes that you don't need a finance degree to build wealth, advocating for the simplicity of index funds. JL debunks common investing myths and encourages viewers to see market dips as opportunities rather than disasters. He also discusses the importance of financial literacy, diversifying income streams, and the transformative power of consistent investing for achieving financial independence.

May 12, 2025 • 1h 11min
232. Overcoming Anxiety to Find Your Purpose with Dr. Martha Beck (Oprah's Life Coach!)
Dr. Martha Beck, a bestselling author and coach revered by Oprah, discusses the pervasive issue of anxiety and its impact on self-discovery. She shares insights on transforming anxiety into a guide for purpose, emphasizing self-kindness and the neuroscience behind our emotions. The conversation dives into the role of creativity, the importance of authenticity, and practical tools for moving from panic to peace. Listeners learn how small acts of self-compassion can spark significant personal transformation and fulfillment.