Financial Feminist

What happens when a cultural icon known for spreading joy and glam realness opens up about their most personal financial struggles? In this episode, I sit down with the one and only Jonathan Van Ness aka JVN for a raw, vulnerable, and hilarious conversation about money trauma, impulse spending, and the financial wake-up call that changed everything. From their first money memory at Bath & Body Works to navigating money as a public figure living with HIV, JVN shares how they went from financial avoidance to agency—with a little help from our past conversations. We dive deep into how queer joy is not just resistance, but a vital tool for survival, why financial literacy is crucial for marginalized communities, and what it really takes to heal your relationship with money. Plus, you'll hear Jonathan’s tips for luxury bag resale (you'll want to take notes), the emotional weight of growing up without financial guidance, and how they've transformed their entire financial life, mindset, and self-worth. Tune in! JVN’s links: Website: https://jonathanvanness.com/ Hot & Healed tour: https://jonathanvanness.com/tour/    Book: Let Them Stare: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/let-them-stare-jonathan-van-nessjulie-murphy? variant=43252198768674   Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/jvn-money-trauma-financial-healing/ Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod   Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Special thanks to our sponsors: Squarespace Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase. Indeed Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD. Rocket Money Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD. Quince For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Netsuite If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Saily Get an exclusive 15% discount on Saily eSIM data plans! Go to Saily.com/FFPOD download the Saily app and use code 'FFPOD' at checkout. Masterclass Get 15% off any annual membership at Masterclass.com/FFPOD. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dive into a transformative journey about embracing risk and unlocking your potential. Discover actionable insights on taking bold actions and conquering the fear that holds you back. Learn how to prioritize your happiness over societal expectations and redefine your relationship with risk. The conversation highlights the importance of progress over perfection, encouraging you to take manageable steps toward growth. Get ready to challenge your mindset and design the life you truly love!

Dasha Kennedy, a financial activist and founder of The Broke Black Girl, shares her journey from financial hardship to empowerment. She delves into the emotional complexities of being broke and the systemic obstacles that perpetuate poverty. Dasha emphasizes the importance of financial literacy for Black women and the need for community support. She discusses breaking free from payday loan cycles and transforming mindsets around money, advocating for proactive financial planning and shared responsibility in building generational wealth.

In this discussion, Amanda Litman, co-founder of Run for Something and author of 'When We’re in Charge', shares her insights on modern leadership. She emphasizes leading with empathy and maintaining work-life balance in a world that constantly demands more. Amanda explores how Millennials and Gen Z are redefining leadership norms, stressing the importance of authenticity, accountability, and diversity. From navigating feedback to the parallels between leadership and parenting, she offers practical strategies for nurturing inclusive and supportive environments.

Deja Foxx, a 25-year-old leader and activist, is on a mission to become the first Gen Z woman elected to Congress in Arizona. She passionately discusses the financial burdens of running for office and the critical link between reproductive rights and economic justice. Deja emphasizes the power of grassroots support and the necessity of mobilizing young voices in politics. She inspires listeners to engage civically and reminds everyone that change is possible when we harness lived experiences and refuse to wait our turn.

If you've ever felt like your ambition made people uncomfortable—or worse, made you question your worth—this episode is for you. In this episode I sat down with journalist and content creator Danielle Robay, to talk about what it means to own your ambition in a world that constantly tries to shrink you. Dubbed The Queen of Questions, she has interviewed everyone from Taylor Swift to Michael B. Jordan, and today she’s talking with us about everything from asking better questions to navigating the spiritual cost of going after big dreams. Danielle’s links: Website:www.daniellerobay.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/  Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/owning-your-ambition-danielle-robay/ Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Special thanks to our sponsors: Squarespace Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase. Rocket Money Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD. Quince For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Netsuite If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Masterclass Get at least 15% off any annual membership at Masterclass.com/FFPOD. Indeed Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD. ResortPass Visit Resortpass.com and use code FFPOD to get $20 off your first ResortPass experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ash Perez, a Cuban-Korean-Filipino writer and openly trans man, shares his powerful journey through gender transition and financial realities. He candidly discusses the often-overlooked costs, from surgeries to lost job opportunities. Ash emphasizes the need for genuine support from cisgender allies while navigating societal expectations. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of transitioning and the importance of empathy and representation in fostering understanding. Listeners will gain insight into the complexities of identity, financial survival, and the pursuit of authentic joy.

Register for our FREE workshop, Stock Market Secrets: Debunking Common Myths for Successful Investing: herfirst100k.com/secrets-pod What does it really mean to be a “rich girl”—and can we pursue wealth without sacrificing our values or our mental health? In this episode, I sit down with one of my favorite personal finance girlies, Katie Gatti Tassin, founder of Money with Katie and author of Rich Girl Nation. Katie and I dive into what it means to define success on your own terms and how to untangle your identity from your income. We talk about the dangers of tying self-worth to productivity, the role of privilege in financial success, and how to build wealth while still staying grounded in rest, joy, and community. This isn’t about toxic hustle or selling your soul for a dollar—it’s about building a life that’s rich in more ways than one. If you’ve ever wondered whether your drive for financial freedom is helping you thrive—or quietly burning you out—this episode is for you. Katie’s links: Website: https://moneywithkatie.com/ Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-be-a-rich-girl-katie-gatti-tassin/ Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Special thanks to our sponsors: Squarespace Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase. Rocket Money Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD. Quince For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Netsuite If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Masterclass Get an additional 15% off any annual membership at Masterclass.com/FFPOD. Indeed Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD. ResortPass Visit Resortpass.com and use code FFPOD to get $20 off your first ResortPass experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Explore the five sneaky money mindsets that could be sabotaging your financial aspirations. Discover how deeply-rooted beliefs and excuses can keep you from achieving your goals. Learn about the importance of prioritizing long-term rewards over instant gratification. Challenge the misconceptions between millionaires and billionaires and shift your mindset toward empowerment. This enlightening discussion provides essential strategies to break free from mental blocks and take charge of your financial journey.

Casey Tanner, an AASECT certified sex therapist and author of "Feel It All," explores the intersections of capitalism, sexual intimacy, and identity. They discuss how productivity obsession and purity culture influence not just finances but also personal relationships with sex. The conversation dives into the impact of societal pressures and past traumas on intimacy, advocating for open dialogue about gender dynamics and pleasure. Listeners are invited to reflect on their beliefs while learning strategies to revive excitement in long-term relationships.