Hannah Witton, a seasoned Sex and Relationships Educator, Author, and Podcaster, shares her journey into creating intimate content on YouTube. She discusses the importance of early sexual education and how talking about taboo topics can foster healthier relationships. The conversation navigates the challenges of modern sex education, the balance of personal life with public engagement, and effective communication strategies for romantic partnerships. Witton advocates for inclusivity and empathy, emphasizing the interconnectedness of sexuality, mental health, and personal identity.
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Early YouTube Days
Hannah Witton started making YouTube videos in 2011 to join the online community.
Her initial videos were often inside jokes with internet friends and random thoughts.
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Becoming a Sex Educator
Inspired by an American YouTuber, Hannah Witton saw a gap in UK sex education content.
At 19, she combined her interest in the topic with her small YouTube platform.
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Limited Sex Ed
Hannah Witton recalls putting a condom on a test tube the wrong way in a school sex ed class.
Later, her Catholic college teacher refused to teach contraception, highlighting the gaps in her sex education.
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Hannah is a Sex and Relationships Educator, Author and Podcaster whose been making online content for over 10 years. She’s known for having open and taboo busting conversations about sex and relationships, stoma and disability and in this episode we sit down for a chat about how she gained the confidence to start creating sex and relationships content on Youtube, why we should start talking about sex and relationships in our schooling years and how to have healthier romantic relationships.
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