TED Talks Daily The secret to making new friends as an adult | Marisa Franco
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Feb 2, 2023 
In this engaging discussion, psychologist Marisa Franco shares her expertise on the often-challenging world of adult friendships. She reveals the 'acceptance prophecy,' which encourages positive assumptions about others to enhance social interactions. The conversation highlights how humor and shared experiences can deepen bonds while addressing societal biases favoring romantic relationships. Franco offers practical tips for nurturing friendships, even across distances, emphasizing empathy and vulnerability as keys to building lasting connections.
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Importance of Friendships
- People need community to feel whole, experiencing different sides of themselves with various friends.
- Friendships are crucial but often devalued due to societal emphasis on romantic and familial love.
Overcoming Fear of Rejection
- Marisa Franco hesitated to connect with her new neighbors due to fear of rejection.
- Her ex encouraged her to apply her own friendship advice, leading to regular Friday gatherings.
Assume People Like You
- Assume people like you.
- This "acceptance prophecy" increases warmth and openness, making you more likable.
