Living a Happier Life, Saying No, and Prioritizing Goals with Derek Sivers

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Mar 29, 2023

Derek Sivers, entrepreneur and author of "Hell Yeah or No," shares his unconventional journey from musician to founder of CD Baby. He discusses the art of decision-making, and the significance of aligning personal values with actions. Delving into meaningful parenting, he advocates for spontaneity in family travel, allowing children to lead adventures. Sivers emphasizes the joy found in reflective journaling and navigating choices between luck and intentionality, providing insights that challenge traditional beliefs about happiness and fulfillment.

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Woodstock Move

Derek Sivers moved to Woodstock after years of living in NYC.
He only realized he'd wanted this for two years after a friend reminded him.

ADVICE

Embrace Slow Transitions

Don't rush into immediate action, even if you feel overwhelmed.
Consider a slower transition and allow time for intentions to manifest.

ANECDOTE

India Trip

Missing social interaction, Derek Sivers booked a trip to India.
He scheduled meetings with 55 people over six days, turning his desire into reality.

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