Charles Duhigg, acclaimed writer for The New Yorker and author of "The Power of Habit," dives into the secrets of effective communication. He discusses the three types of conversations and the importance of empathy and deep listening. With insights from his book "Supercommunicators," Duhigg shares methods to improve conversational skills, handle sensitive discussions, and foster genuine connections. He highlights lessons from high-stakes settings, illustrating how emotional intelligence can transform interactions and support professional growth.
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Argument Pattern
Charles Duhigg struggled with unproductive arguments with his wife.
He'd complain, she'd offer solutions, and he'd get defensive, a common relationship issue.
insights INSIGHT
Types of Conversations
Every discussion has multiple underlying conversations: practical, emotional, and social.
If you and another person are having different kinds of conversations at the same time, it will be hard to connect.
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Ask Deep Questions
Ask deep questions about values, beliefs, and experiences to connect with others.
When asked "What do you do?", follow up with "What made you choose that path?"
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In this book, Charles Duhigg explores the science of habit formation and change. He explains the 'habit loop' consisting of a cue, a routine, and a reward, and how understanding this loop can help in changing bad habits or forming good ones. The book includes numerous examples from various fields, such as how Procter & Gamble successfully marketed Febreze, how Alcoa transformed its business by focusing on safety, and how individuals like Olympic swimmer Michael Phelps and civil-rights hero Martin Luther King, Jr. benefited from specific habits. Duhigg argues that by harnessing this science, individuals and organizations can transform their lives and businesses[2][4][5].
Supercommunicators
How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection
Charles Duhigg
In this book, Charles Duhigg explores the secrets of 'supercommunicators' who excel at connecting with others. He delves into the three distinct types of conversations—practical, emotional, and social—and provides practical strategies and case studies to illustrate how to recognize and navigate these conversations effectively. The book includes examples from various contexts, such as jury deliberations, CIA recruitments, and workplace interactions, to demonstrate how communication can be improved. Duhigg emphasizes the importance of active listening, identifying complex emotions, and matching the type of conversation to enhance connection and understanding.
Charles Duhigg is a celebrated writer for The New Yorker and author of bestseller "The Power of Habit." His latest book, "Supercommunicators," describes how to effectively communicate in conversation.
Our conversation covers Charles’ path to writing business stories and personal books and turn to his latest tour du force. We discuss the science behind connection, three types of conversations, methods to become a better communicator, and tools to navigate challenging conversations. Charles’ book and words feel like unlocking a secret language that can help anyone connect better with others, and he embodies the archetype of the supercommunicator he describes.
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