

Jay Shetty’s Rules of Love
5 snips Feb 17, 2025
Jay Shetty, #1 New York Times bestselling author and host of On Purpose, dives into relationship wisdom from his book, 8 Rules of Love. He emphasizes that relationships require ongoing care and self-love is foundational. Shetty explains the balance between chemistry and compatibility for lasting success. Conflict resolution through proactive communication is crucial, and he explores love beyond romance, advocating for appreciation of familial and friendship bonds. This conversation is packed with actionable insights to keep love vibrant.
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Embrace Singlehood
- Be comfortable being single before pursuing a relationship.
- Studies show single people's happiness increases over time and often exceeds expectations.
Chemistry vs. Character
- Don't overemphasize initial chemistry; it's misleading in the long run.
- Prioritize character traits over fleeting sparks; they sustain long-term relationships.
Time and Observation
- Spend quality time (200 hours) with someone before saying "I love you".
- Observe their character in different situations, especially under stress.