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The Next Big Idea Daily

Jay Shetty’s Rules of Love

Feb 17, 2025
Jay Shetty, #1 New York Times bestselling author and host of On Purpose, dives into relationship wisdom from his book, 8 Rules of Love. He emphasizes that relationships require ongoing care and self-love is foundational. Shetty explains the balance between chemistry and compatibility for lasting success. Conflict resolution through proactive communication is crucial, and he explores love beyond romance, advocating for appreciation of familial and friendship bonds. This conversation is packed with actionable insights to keep love vibrant.
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Jay Shetty

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Quick takeaways

  • Building meaningful relationships requires significant invested time, with different milestones reflecting the depth of friendships developed over hours spent together.
  • Embracing solitude fosters individual happiness, suggesting that self-love and personal fulfillment are crucial for healthier dynamics in future relationships.

Deep dives

The Importance of Time in Friendship

Building genuine relationships takes time, with specific hours correlating to different levels of friendship. It takes around 40 hours to consider someone a casual friend, 100 hours for a good friend, and 200 hours to establish a great friendship. To truly express feelings like 'I love you,' individuals should reflect on whether they've spent enough quality time together, emphasizing experiences shared rather than just being in proximity. The focus should be on being present and engaged with one another, going beyond shared activities like movie nights or phone usage.

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