Radical Candor: Communication at Work Why We All Need a Curiosity Check With Jeff Wetzler 7 | 41
Nov 19, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Jeff Wetzler, author of "Ask" and expert on curiosity in conversations, shares insights on preparing for high-stakes talks. He introduces the 'Curiosity Curve' and highlights the importance of assessing one's curiosity before engaging in tough conversations. Jeff breaks down different curiosity zones, from self-righteous disdain to fascinated wonder, and offers practical strategies to enhance curiosity through mental, emotional, and actionable approaches. Discover how curiosity can transform dialogue and deepen trust.
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Conversations Need Preparation Like Flights
- We prepare for projects but rarely for high-stakes conversations, often defaulting to arguments and ammo.
- Jeff argues the missing check is assessing our own curiosity before entering those talks.
The Arc Of Curiosity Framework
- Jeff defines an Arc of Curiosity with progressive levels from disdain to fascinated wonder.
- Recognizing your position on the arc helps you intentionally shift toward curiosity.
Shift One Click At A Time
- Move one or two clicks up the arc rather than forcing a complete transformation immediately.
- Each step toward curiosity grants more degrees of freedom in a conversation.
