The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Moment 155: The "Post Date 8" Questions You Need To Ask To Find 'The One' - Logan Ury
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Mar 29, 2024 
Logan Ury, a behavioral expert and dating coach, shares invaluable insights on modern dating. He challenges the common practice of relationship shopping, encouraging listeners to explore their true needs through experimentation. Logan introduces his 'post-date eight' questions, guiding individuals to reflect on who they are around their date and what connections truly matter. He emphasizes that long-term compatibility relies on genuine connections and mutual respect rather than superficial traits and societal expectations.
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Focus on Fundamentals, Not Superficial Traits
- Focus on fundamental aspects of compatibility rather than superficial traits when choosing a partner.
- Shift from 'relationship shopping'—seeking specific traits—to 'relationship shipping'—investing in long-term compatibility.
Date Like a Scientist
- People often have inaccurate preconceived notions about their ideal partner.
- Date like a scientist, experimenting with different partner types and challenging assumptions.
Focus on the Experience, Not the Evaluation
- Evaluate potential partners based on how they make you feel and behave.
- Use Logan Ury's "post-date eight" questions to assess the quality of your interactions.