On this episode, self-compassion expert Dr. Kristin Neff discusses the origins of self-criticism and the power of self-compassion. She explores the cultural and evolutionary reasons behind self-criticism and explains the importance of treating oneself with kindness and compassion.
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Self-criticism is driven by both cultural and evolutionary factors, leading to severe self-judgment.
Self-compassion is a more effective approach than self-criticism, allowing us to learn from mistakes and cultivate self-motivation.
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The Origins of Self-Criticism
Self-criticism is a common tendency among people, driven by both cultural and evolutionary factors. Cultural influences teach us that being self-deprecating is admirable, so we tend to cut ourselves down. Evolutionarily, when we feel threatened or have made a mistake, we enter threat defense mode. In this mode, we either criticize ourselves, isolate ourselves in shame, or freeze, all as a means of protecting ourselves. Thus, self-criticism is a natural response, although it is often more severe than the criticism we direct towards others.
The Power of Self-Compassion
Self-compassion is a more effective approach to dealing with challenges than self-criticism. When we are kind to ourselves, we can learn from our mistakes more effectively. By treating ourselves with kindness, adopting a warmer tone of voice, and recognizing that difficulties are temporary, we can tap into our natural capacity for compassion. Self-compassion allows us to address our inner critic with love and understanding, acknowledging its fears and inviting it to provide constructive and encouraging advice. This approach is not only more effective but also helps us cultivate self-motivation and improve our performance.
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The Origins and Effects of Self-Criticism and the Power of Self-Compassion
Self-compassion expert and co-founder of the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion Dr. Kristin Neff is guest hosting this week on Radio Headspace. Today she explores overcoming harmful self-criticism, introducing tools for positive self-talk, and nurturing kindness toward oneself.
If you'd like to continue learning about self-compassion, check out Dr. Neff's online Mindful Self-Compassion courses here. All Radio Headspace listeners will receive a 15% discount for upcoming courses with the following code: cmscheadspace. This code is good through September 30, 2024.