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Jen Hatmaker: Marriage, Loneliness & Starting Over

Oct 9, 2024
Jen Hatmaker, a New York Times bestselling author and podcast host, shares her journey of navigating the shock of losing her 26-year marriage. She reflects on her friends calling her a 'human spotlight' in her marriage and the slow realization of her loneliness. The conversation dives into why so many feel isolated even in relationships, addressing the importance of vulnerability and honest communication. Jen emphasizes the healing power of community and connection as essential steps in rebuilding one’s life and embracing authenticity.
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ANECDOTE

Sudden Marriage End

  • Jen Hatmaker describes her 26-year marriage ending suddenly in 2020.
  • She emphasizes the shock and lack of a slow burn or mutual decision.
INSIGHT

Pre-Divorce Grief

  • Amanda Doyle observes that the pain of divorce starts before the actual decision.
  • She reflects on grieving aspects of her marriage before consciously acknowledging its end.
ANECDOTE

Confiding in Glennon

  • Six months before her divorce, Jen confided in Glennon Doyle about sensing something wrong in her marriage.
  • Glennon offered immediate support, workshopping the issue with Jen based on shared experiences.
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