Something You Should Know The Problem with Authenticity & The Psychology That Fuels War
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Oct 16, 2025 Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, a business psychologist and author, challenges the notion of authenticity, suggesting that striving for a fixed self can be detrimental and advocating for presenting the best version of oneself instead. Neuroscientist Nicholas Wright dives into the psychology of warfare, arguing that conflict is hardwired into human nature and exploring when it may be necessary to use force. Their fascinating discussion weaves through the complexities of self-presentation and the evolutionary roots of conflict, urging listeners to rethink common beliefs.
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Kissing Is Biologically Complex
- Kissing triggers oxytocin and endorphins, strengthens romantic attachment, and supplies rich sensory data from many nerves around the mouth.
- It also exercises about 30 facial muscles and can boost immunity by exposing you to others' bacteria.
Authenticity Assumes A Single Self
- The popular injunction to "be authentic" assumes a single constant self, which most people don't actually have across situations.
- Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic argues authenticity is often misunderstood and can be unhelpful.
Context Shapes Who We Are
- People naturally adapt across roles (work, home, parties) so insisting on identical behavior everywhere is unrealistic.
- Work should invite your professional best, not your unfiltered impulses.
