Parker J. Palmer, an esteemed author and mentor, shares his insights on understanding ourselves and each other. He discusses the challenges of giving advice and the importance of creating a supportive environment for open dialogue. Palmer emphasizes building community through empathy and deep listening, highlighting how genuine connection can transform relationships. He also addresses the pitfalls of superficial engagement in leadership and the fundamental human need for recognition, urging listeners to embrace self-understanding for personal growth.
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volunteer_activism ADVICE
Building Community Through Storytelling
Use personal storytelling in your workplace to build community.
Have people share brief, non-threatening stories about their lives.
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Honest, Open Questions
Ask honest, open questions to foster deeper understanding within teams.
Facilitate listening sessions focused on inquiry, not debate, when facing tough issues.
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Open Questions in Academia
Parker Palmer shares an example of using open questions with university faculty.
He facilitated discussions around course designs, fostering deeper reflection without judgment.
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Essentialism
The Disciplined Pursuit of Less
Greg McKeown
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Have you ever had someone come to you with a dilemma, but when you start to share your advice, they resist your every suggestion? The relationship gets more strained. You leave feeling frustrated, but when you open up, you immediately get advice and feel more alone and more confused than you were before. For this episode, I continue the conversation I started in Episode 17 with one of my heroes, Parker J. Palmer. He's sharing a story or two, some of the things he has learned over decades, and some actionable advice. By the end of this episode, you will be better able to help people unravel their confusion and find the right way forward.