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Imbalanced Initial Interest
- One person is often more interested than the other, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
- Ideally, if you're interested and they're not, you should learn to step away and stop pursuing.
Flawed Understanding of Love
- We often chase unavailable people because we have an upside-down understanding of love.
- We think love must be fought for and earned rather than being mutual from the start.
Chasing as Self-Love Avoidance
- We pursue unavailable people as a distraction from a deeper issue: struggling to love ourselves.
- Chasing others helps avoid confronting our own self-worth and inner work.