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We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny (re-release)

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Jul 16, 2025
Nora McInerny, a writer and podcaster renowned for her humorous takes on grief, shares her profound insights on navigating loss. She emphasizes that grieving individuals can still find moments of joy while carrying their grief forward. Through personal anecdotes, she recounts her journey after losing her father and husband, highlighting the importance of community and shared experiences. McInerny also challenges the notion of 'moving on,' advocating for a relationship with grief that honors beloved memories while embracing life fully.
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ANECDOTE

Nora's Year of Loss

  • Nora lost her second pregnancy, her father, and her husband in quick succession in 2014.
  • Despite this, she shares her experience openly to help others prepare for grief.
ANECDOTE

Hot Young Widows Club

  • Nora and a friend started the Hot Young Widows Club to support those who lost partners.
  • The group offers peer connection where people can openly discuss grief without burdening others.
INSIGHT

Rejecting "Moving On" Phrase

  • Nora resents the phrase "moving on" because it implies leaving loved ones behind.
  • She believes loved ones remain present in life and memory, intertwining past and present.
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