Psychologists Off the Clock

109. How to Loosen Up and Be Less Overcontrolled: Radically Open DBT with Hope Arnold (part 2)

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Oct 25, 2019
Hope Arnold, a Senior Clinician and founder of RO DBT Denver, dives into Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy. She discusses how excessive self-control can affect relationships and well-being. Discover the importance of 'social signaling' and how embracing ordinariness can enhance personal growth. Hope highlights the role of mirror neurons in therapy sessions and introduces playful techniques to lighten rigid self-perceptions. Her insights reveal a fresh perspective on emotional flexibility and the challenges of being overcontrolled.
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INSIGHT

RO DBT Treats Overcontrol Directly

  • Radically Open DBT (RO DBT) targets maladaptive over-control, the opposite spectrum of traditional DBT's focus.
  • RO DBT aims to reduce rigidity and increase social connection rather than prioritize emotional regulation.
INSIGHT

Self-Inquiry Over Passive Acceptance

  • RO DBT's philosophy borrows from Malamati Sufism and emphasizes self-inquiry over passive acceptance.
  • The therapy encourages examining one's part in conflicts before blaming others to promote learning and growth.
ADVICE

Practice Being Willing To Be Wrong

  • Cultivate willingness to be wrong and approach distressing situations to learn and grow.
  • Practice radical openness actively to increase happiness and relational closeness.
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