
Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark Why Your Wife Won’t Submit | Biblical Leadership with Owen Strachan
Nov 7, 2025
Dr. Owen Strachan, a theologian and author of 'The War on Men', dives deep into the essence of biblical leadership in marriage. He discusses the cultural obstacles men face, contrasts sacrificial headship with domineering rule, and provides practical tips for engaging with family during chaos. Strachan emphasizes strong communication, mutual respect, and the significance of a shared vision for a thriving marriage. He also challenges misconceptions about submission and advocates for accountability within the local church, creating a blueprint for lasting relationships.
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Come Home To Serve Not Rule
- Enter chaos at home with humility and service rather than kingly command.
- Pray beforehand and engage children to set a calm, steady tone when you walk in.
Lead Yourself Before Leading Family
- Lead yourself first by practicing regular Bible reading, prayer, and church involvement.
- Then assess if you are protecting, providing, and gathering the family spiritually and practically.
Grace Over Radical Honesty
- Radical honesty can damage marriage; discretion and forgiveness preserve unity.
- Marriage proximity demands frequent overlooking and anchoring the relationship in grace.


