Women of Impact

"This is Pure Manipulation"- 11 Traps Narcissists & Cheaters Use When They’re Losing Control of You! PT1

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Jan 14, 2026
In a gripping conversation, James Sexton, a seasoned New York divorce attorney, shares insights from over 25 years dealing with high-conflict situations. He reveals how narcissists manipulate their partners through blame-shifting and confusion, complicating divorce settlements. James emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and highlights tactical courtroom strategies to expose deceit. He also tackles the intriguing dynamics of infidelity, especially surrounding nannies, and advises on maintaining personal autonomy to prevent marital distractions. Prepare to rethink how to navigate toxic relationships!
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INSIGHT

Slow Erosion By Power Struggles

  • Narcissists erode you slowly through confusion, blame-shifting, and rewriting reality.
  • Recognizing the power struggle stops self-doubt and apologizing for things you didn't do.
ADVICE

Leave If You Can

  • Get away from a narcissist when possible because you cannot fix their core patterns.
  • Treat extrication as the objective rather than trying to teach or change them.
ADVICE

Giving In Feeds Control

  • Refuse to 'buy peace' by giving in to demands; submission fuels more control.
  • Keep boundaries instead of handing over money or concessions to stop escalation.
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