Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 137 - Intersectionality and Polyamorous Communities (with therapist Ruby Bouie Johnson)
Sep 19, 2017
Ruby Bouie Johnson, a sex therapist and founder of PolyDallas Millennium, dives into the essential role of intersectionality in polyamorous communities. She discusses the evolution of PolyDallas and the necessity for true inclusivity, emphasizing the voices of marginalized groups. Ruby also addresses the unique challenges faced by the black polyamorous community amidst sociopolitical tensions. The importance of kink-aware therapy and the experiences of diverse identities in navigating non-monogamy are highlighted, promoting a deeper understanding of belonging and empowerment.
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Origin of Poly Dallas Millennium
- Ruby started Poly Dallas Millennium to educate therapists about polyamory and kink, initially with low attendance.
- By expanding and improving the event, the community attendance grew from 30 to nearly 100 participants.
Segregation in Texas Poly Communities
- Poly communities in Texas are highly segregated by race and age, making it hard to see the whole picture.
- While Dallas is in a conservative state, it offers a somewhat sex-positive environment compared to others in Texas.
Intersectionality and Polyamory
- Intersectionality originated from Kimberlé Crenshaw's work around race, gender, and class, primarily regarding the Black women's experience.
- The term has become whitewashed and less potent but remains crucial in understanding polyamory's layered challenges within marginalized communities.
