
 Relationship Advice 48: Darlene Lancer on Breaking-Up: Should You Leave Or Can You Get the Change You Want?
 Aug 27, 2014 
 Darlene Lancer, a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of experience, shares her insights on relationship dynamics and breaking up. She emphasizes the importance of self-assessment and communication, particularly for those in codependent relationships. Darlene discusses the path to individual fulfillment, urging listeners to prioritize their happiness before seeking joy from others. She also highlights recognizing abuse and the necessity of setting boundaries, helping individuals navigate the complexities of intimacy and autonomy. 
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 Intro 
 00:00 • 3min 
 The Journey to Healthy Relationships Through Autonomy 
 02:55 • 2min 
 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 
 04:58 • 20min 
 Finding Individual Fulfillment in Relationships 
 24:46 • 3min 
 Assessing Abuse and Setting Boundaries in Relationships 
 27:45 • 2min 
 Strengthening Relationships: Practical Advice for Couples 
 29:17 • 8min 
