
The High Performance Podcast The Man Behind the All Blacks Mentality: Gilbert Enoka on Building Character & Connection
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Nov 5, 2025 In this engaging conversation, veteran mental skills coach Gilbert Enoka, renowned for his work with the New Zealand All Blacks, shares how his challenging upbringing shaped his insights on high performance. He discusses the importance of 'red head vs. blue head' thinking for managing emotions under pressure. Gilbert reveals transformative practices like 'squeeze drills' and emphasizes character development over talent. He also shares intimate stories about legendary players, providing a glimpse into the powerful rituals that cultivate connection and humility within the team.
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Childhood Shaped Inner Work
- Gilbert recounts spending 12 years in an orphanage and surviving through scarcity and disconnection.
- That upbringing pushed him to own his choices and focus on inner change rather than blaming circumstances.
Emotional Sensitivity Becomes Power
- Emotional deprivation made Gilbert hyper-sensitive to others' unspoken needs and cues.
- He used early arrival and observation to meet unmet needs and mobilize support for players.
Meet People Where They Are
- Read body language, voice, and social connection to assess someone's state today.
- Meet people where they are to move them forward instead of using yesterday's assumptions.
