9: Male/Female perspective with Sabrinas big brother and dating coach Joe Zohar
Mar 24, 2023
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Sabrina is joined by her big brother Joe, a dating coach, to discuss the male and female perspective on dating. They debunk myths about sleeping together on the first date and being 'not ready for a relationship'. They emphasize the importance of self-reflection, assessing potential partners based on values, and being open to new experiences. They also explore the significance of feeling confident and secure in dating, and whether liking photos on social media indicates interest or connection.
Authenticity and being true to oneself plays a crucial role in dating success, attracting the right kind of people.
Understanding male perspectives in dating, such as the importance of visual cues and women being warm and engaging, can help establish better connections.
Anxiety and avoidance are common in dating, and it's important to find a balance between externalizing and internalizing emotions, while being self-aware and comfortable with oneself.
Deep dives
Importance of Setting Yourself Up for Success
One of the main takeaways from the podcast episode is the importance of setting yourself up for success when it comes to dating. This involves being authentic and true to yourself, rather than trying to fit into a checklist or playing games. It's about being comfortable in your own skin and presenting yourself in a genuine way, rather than putting up a facade. By doing so, you attract the right kind of people who appreciate you for who you truly are.
Understanding Male Perspectives
Another key point discussed in the podcast is the importance of understanding male perspectives in dating. It emphasizes that men are visual creatures and pay attention to visual cues, such as smiles, engagement, and body language. It also highlights the significance of women being warm, engaging, and showing some level of physical contact to indicate interest. Additionally, the podcast emphasizes that men want women who are comfortable in their own skin, secure, and acknowledge their presence. Understanding these perspectives can help establish better connections.
Navigating Anxiety and Avoidance
The podcast delves into the topic of anxiety and avoidance in dating. It highlights that both anxious and avoidant individuals experience intense emotions, but they deal with them differently. While anxious individuals tend to be outwardly expressive, avoidant individuals may retreat and keep their emotions inward. The key insight provided is that there is no right or wrong way to process emotions, and it's crucial to find a balance between externalizing and internalizing. The podcast emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, learning from past experiences, and being comfortable with oneself to navigate anxiety and avoidance in dating.
Sleeping together on the first date
Sleeping together on the first date does not necessarily ruin chances of a relationship. It can work if there is a strong connection and sexual compatibility, but it may not work if there are hindrances or lack of compatibility. The key is to focus on genuine connection and understanding each other's needs.
Reading dating profiles
Reading dating profiles is important to spark genuine engagement. It shows interest in the person and helps in understanding shared interests and values. Having a well-detailed profile can attract meaningful conversations and go beyond surface-level interactions.
This week Sabrina is joined by her big brother Joe here to spill the tea! On this episode Joe and Sabrina dive into the male and female perspective on dating (coming from an avoidant male and anxious female), courtship and bust myths on things like 'does sleeping together first date ruin things?' or is 'not ready for a relationship' an excuse?
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