

How to Cultivate a Deep-Rooted Marriage, feat. Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call
16 snips Mar 27, 2025
Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call, both Enneagram authors and marriage therapists, share their insights on cultivating deep-rooted marriages. They discuss the impact of curiosity in resolving conflicts and the significance of gratitude and playfulness in strengthening bonds. The duo explores how the Enneagram can guide couples in understanding emotional dynamics, addressing shame, and enhancing intimacy. Listeners gain practical advice for nurturing understanding and rejoicing in the unique quirks of their partners, fostering lasting connections.
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The Danger of Contempt
- Contempt, whether directed at oneself or one's partner, damages relationships.
- It often stems from shame and hinders connection.
Later-Life Marriage Advice
- In later years, focus on giving back to others.
- Share wisdom, resources, and love with family, friends, and community.
Mid-Marriage Advice
- During middle age, anticipate physical and emotional challenges.
- View these as opportunities for growth, compassion, and spiritual connection.