Typology

Join Dr. Les Parrott, a clinical psychologist and bestselling author, along with Judah Smith, a dynamic pastor and communicator. They explore the five toxic thought patterns—guilt, shame, insecurity, entitlement, and unworthiness—and how reframing these can lead to healing. Judah shares personal struggles with his inner critic, and they discuss the church's potential to embody vulnerability akin to AA meetings. Their engaging conversation weaves together spirituality and psychology, shedding light on transforming harmful thoughts into growth.

Drs. Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, therapists and spiritual directors from Soul Shepherding, delve into the power of empathy in fostering deep love. They reveal how shame and emotional wounds hinder our ability to receive love. With insights from their book, they discuss the importance of self-empathy and how various Enneagram types uniquely struggle with it. The Gaultieres also differentiate between tactical and transformational empathy and explore how experiencing God’s empathy can bring healing, even amid suffering.

Elan Benami, a licensed professional counselor and the creator of the EnneaApp, shares insights into the Enneagram's instinctual stack. He discusses the three instincts—self-preservation, social, and one-to-one—and their impact on behavior. Elan explains how these instincts shape subtypes and influence personal dynamics. Drawing on his experiences as a self-preservation Six, he illustrates how differing dominant instincts can create relationship challenges. This engaging conversation helps listeners deepen their Enneagram understanding and self-awareness.

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author of "Exaholics," and founder of Growing Self Counseling. In this engaging discussion, she unpacks why love can feel addictive, linking it to our biological wiring for attachment. Lisa explores how different Enneagram types interact in relationships, exposing myths of compatibility and power dynamics. She offers insights on spotting blind spots in partnerships and shares practical exercises for understanding and improving relational patterns. A hopeful conversation about love, healing, and growth!

Justin Davis, a pastor and co-founder of RefineUs Ministries, and Trisha Davis, also a pastor and author, share their powerful journey through marriage struggles. They discuss the nuances of their Enneagram types—Eights and Threes—unpacking how these dynamics played out in their relationship. The couple reflects on the importance of vulnerability, healing through grief, and the non-linear process of forgiveness. Their insights offer practical steps for anyone seeking to transform their relationships through intentional choices and genuine presence.

Dr. Todd Hall, a licensed clinical psychologist and professor, dives into the fascinating interplay between attachment theory and spirituality. He reveals how our early bonds shape our emotional health and relationships with others and God. Hall discusses the four attachment styles and offers insights on how to navigate them for healing. He connects attachment patterns with the Enneagram, exploring their implications for personal growth. With practical spiritual practices, he highlights pathways to rewire relational styles towards security and deeper connections.

Emily Kasriel, an award-winning journalist and executive coach, shares her insights on deep listening, drawn from her extensive experience at the BBC. She discusses her eight-step approach to enhance listening skills, highlighting its role in fostering connection and empathy. Topics include the interplay of personality types through the Enneagram, stories that invoke emotional understanding, and the importance of psychological safety in conversations. Kasriel's reflections on self-awareness and curiosity offer transformative tools for improving relationships.

Join Dr. Terence Lester, a community activist and author, as he shares his inspiring journey from dropout to doctorate. He discusses the courage and vulnerability that define his work with Love Beyond Walls, tackling issues of poverty and housing instability. Terence reflects on a life-changing car accident that reshaped his identity and productivity. He emphasizes the importance of balancing action with contemplation in leadership and the healing power of radical love and reconciliation, both personally and in his community.

This week on Typology, I sit down with Ginny Yurich—author of Until the Streetlights Come On and Homeschooling: You're Doing It Right Just by Doing It. Together, we revisit the freedom of childhood play, explore how modern parenting has shifted, and talk about why kids today desperately need more time outdoors. Ginny, an Enneagram Two, shares candidly about her own parenting journey—what she's learned about boundaries, mutuality, and the deep desire to feel appreciated. She also introduces her initiative, 1,000 Hours Outside, which is inspiring families around the world to reclaim the simple, sacred gift of unstructured outdoor play. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, teacher, or simply someone reflecting on your own childhood, this conversation is a powerful reminder that nature has the ability to heal, connect, and transform us.     Connect with Ginny 1,000 Hours Outdoors Podcast  Instagram  Facebook Website Homeschooling: You're Doing It Right Just By Doing It Until the Streetlights Come On  

Alicia Michelle, an ICF certified Christian life coach and author of Emotional Confidence, shares her insights as an Enneagram One. She discusses the journey of self-discovery and the importance of emotional literacy. Alicia introduces her ADD method for effective emotional processing and emphasizes the need for compassion in managing the inner critic. The conversation touches on the complexity of emotions like guilt and anger and explores the balance of emotional sobriety through practical tools, offering listeners fresh perspectives on their emotional journeys.