Ep. 223: Monique Borst - On Leadership, Emotional Mastery, Time, and More
Jul 11, 2024
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Monique Borst, a coach and strategist known for redefining modern business leadership, shares insights on emotional mastery and self-awareness essential for effective leadership. She discusses the impact of emotions on decision-making and the necessity of diverse perspectives. Monique also challenges the traditional notions of time management, advocating for managing energy over busyness. With personal anecdotes from her diverse career, she highlights the importance of authenticity and navigating interpersonal dynamics for meaningful connections.
Self-awareness and emotional mastery are vital for leaders, allowing them to empathize and support their teams effectively.
Modern leadership demands emotional intelligence to navigate uncertainty, moving beyond mere technical proficiency to foster team resilience.
Understanding time qualitatively enhances engagement and creativity, encouraging leaders to reflect rather than solely analyze their experiences.
Deep dives
The Importance of Self-Leadership
Self-awareness and emotional mastery are critical components of effective leadership. Understanding oneself fosters compassion, making it easier to empathize and nurture others. This journey of self-management creates a foundation from which leaders can genuinely serve their teams and organizations. Therefore, personal growth directly correlates with professional capability, particularly in today’s complex and adaptive challenges.
The Shift in Leadership Dynamics
Leadership in the modern world requires an adaptation to new challenges, moving beyond reliance on technical knowledge and prior experience. Emotional intelligence has become essential for guiding teams through uncertainty and change. Leaders lacking this emotional mastery struggle with the complexities of today’s workplace. Consequently, organizations must prioritize leaders capable of navigating these dynamics to ensure effective team management.
The Role of Emotion in Decision-Making
Emotions significantly influence the decision-making process, often contrary to the notion that they should be eliminated from consideration. Acknowledging and understanding these emotions provides crucial insight that informs better decisions. It is imperative to reflect on emotional triggers and biases before acting, allowing for more intentional responses. This practice leads to improved self-awareness and ultimately more informed choices in both personal and professional contexts.
Navigating the Personal and Professional Sphere
The intersection of personal values and professional behavior calls for a careful balance, as one cannot completely compartmentalize life. Authenticity demands alignment between personal identity and professional practice to foster trust and respect. Clarity on values ensures consistent decision-making and behavioral coherence across different contexts. This integrated approach to self-awareness enhances leadership effectiveness and personal fulfillment.
The Value of Time and Experience
Understanding the qualitative nature of time, rather than merely its quantitative aspect, promotes more meaningful engagement in tasks and relationships. Prioritizing moments of reflection and unstructured time can lead to greater creativity and innovation. Embracing experiences rather than focusing solely on analysis facilitates personal and professional growth. Leaders who grasp their natural rhythms can harness their productivity more effectively, thereby optimizing their contributions.
Today, I am joined by Monique Borst, who is a coach, a strategist, a CEO catalyst, and as she describes it, "Human WD-40." She helps leaders thrive and wants to redefine modern business leadership.
And this is a conversation all about leadership, including self-leadership, self-awareness, and emotional mastery. And if you are or if you aspire to be in a leadership position or you work with leaders, then I think you are going to be in for an eye-opening conversation.
We cover so much here from how to think about our personal and professional lives, emotions in decision-making, seeking diverse perspectives when making decisions, and experience over analysis, and we also have a fabulous, fascinating conversation about the concept of time.