The Self-Driven Child

Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You

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Sep 9, 2025
Jeff Selingo, a New York Times bestselling author and expert in higher education, shares insights from his latest book, Dream School. He discusses why students often fixate on prestigious colleges, narrowing their options. Selingo highlights the importance of balanced college lists and debunks misconceptions about backup schools. He also explores the value of hands-on learning and mentorship in student success. Ultimately, he advocates for focusing on the right college fit over elite status, promoting a long-term growth mindset.
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ANECDOTE

Mentor 'Sharon' Shaped Jeff's College Path

  • Jeff recalls a student-affairs mentor who treated him like an adult and guided him through college decisions.
  • He credits that relationship with opening opportunities and building his confidence during college.
INSIGHT

Prestige Is A Social Signal

  • Communities and social signaling drive prestige-seeking more than individual preference.
  • Students narrow college lists toward selective schools because of community pressure and overconfidence from grades and tests.
ADVICE

Maintain A Balanced List

  • Keep accessible, well-matched colleges on your list to create balance even after junior-year scores arrive.
  • Avoid removing safer options when a test score creates overconfidence that narrows your choices.
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