The Wall of Awful with Brendan Mahan, M.Ed., M.S., your Considerate and Compassionate Climbing Instructor
Mar 20, 2021
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Dive into the intriguing concept of the 'Wall of Awful,' an emotional barrier rooted in past failures that complicates risk-taking and task initiation. Discover effective strategies for overcoming this wall, including gradual techniques and quick fixes for managing complex emotions. Learn how navigating your emotional landscape can enhance focus and productivity. Plus, explore the importance of environment and physical activity in managing emotions, while preparing for the challenges that arise during personal discussions.
The Wall of Awful represents the emotional barriers stemming from past failures that hinder individuals with ADHD from taking risks or starting new tasks.
Effective strategies to overcome the Wall of Awful include climbing it by engaging with tasks and using short-term relief methods like music and social accountability.
Deep dives
Understanding the Wall of Awful
The Wall of Awful represents the emotional barrier created by repeated failures, which prevents individuals from taking risks and starting new tasks. Every failure adds a 'brick' to this wall, comprised of disappointment, guilt, shame, and anxiety, leading to increased emotional complexity about specific activities. The wall serves as a model to help individuals and families understand and discuss these negative emotional associations, particularly in the context of ADHD. Recognizing the components of the Wall of Awful can facilitate conversations about difficult emotions with children and loved ones, thereby promoting emotional awareness and healing.
Strategies for Overcoming the Wall
There are several strategies to navigate and overcome the Wall of Awful, categorized into ineffective, unhealthy, and effective methods. Ineffective approaches, such as staring at the wall or attempting to go around it, lead to stagnation and distraction, whereas smashing through it can result in damaging one's self-esteem or relationships. Effective strategies include climbing the wall by accepting emotions and engaging with tasks or putting a door in it by altering one's emotional state quickly. Healthy climbing strategies involve setting clear, manageable goals and reflecting on experiences post-task to recognize newfound capabilities, ultimately allowing individuals to build resilience against future failures.
Utilizing Short-Term and Long-Term Solutions
Both climbing and putting a door in the wall are essential for effective navigation, combining short-term relief with long-term growth. Short-term solutions include satisfying biological needs, utilizing music to uplift mood, and fostering accountability through social interactions. Long-term strategies consist of emotional resilience training, such as reframing failures as learning experiences and practicing mindfulness to maintain focus. By balancing these strategies, individuals can effectively manage their emotional states, tackle tasks in a healthier manner, and ultimately mitigate the effects of the Wall of Awful.