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Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch

Encore: S02 Ep. 13 - Audrey’s Narcissistic Ex-Husband

Jan 14, 2025
01:04:23

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Quick takeaways

  • People with narcissistic tendencies can display charm in some contexts and cruelty in others, leading to confusion and conflicting memories.
  • Setting boundaries and advocating for oneself is crucial in relationships to avoid erasure of personal needs and goals.

Deep dives

Recognizing Narcissistic Tendencies

The woman in the podcast episode reflects on her past marriage with a person displaying narcissistic tendencies. She describes his intense charm followed by emotional cruelty and confusion, leading to her feeling stuck and pushing away people who care. As her ex-husband prepares to remarry, she questions whether the divorce was her fault and feels a sense of isolation and despair. The therapist explains that people with narcissistic tendencies can be charming in some contexts and cruel in others, causing confusion and creating different memories. The woman realizes the need to move past this emotional turmoil and regain her identity.

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