HealthyGamerGG "I'll be alone forever"
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Feb 24, 2024 Delving into trauma's lasting impact on relationships and self-worth, exploring the Peter Principle, navigating pressure in dating, breaking cycles of trauma, therapy's role in personal growth, and understanding negative experiences on self-perception.
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Importance and Failure
- When something is important, failure is crushing, especially in dating.
- This creates two injuries: the failure itself and the crushing defeat of failing at something important.
Lowering Dating Importance
- Make dating less important to reduce stress and improve attractiveness.
- Dr. K found this paradoxically helpful in his own life after becoming a monk.
Fantasies in Dating
- When dating is important and inexperienced, fantasies develop, creating unrealistic expectations.
- These fantasies lead to disappointment because reality rarely matches the idealized version.