The Gray Area with Sean Illing

How to listen

Apr 20, 2023

Kate Murphy, a journalist and author of "You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters," discusses the crucial yet overlooked art of listening. She highlights the difference between active listening and mere hearing, showing how superficial engagement leads to loneliness. Murphy advocates for audio-only conversations to foster intimacy, critiques the impact of technology on our listening habits, and emphasizes the importance of developing focused listening skills for deeper human connections.

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Episode notes

Intro

3min

The Impact of Video on Listening and Connection

3min

The Lost Art of Listening

6min

The Distinction Between Hearing and Listening

2min

The Art of Genuine Conversation

4min

Reimagining Cocktail Conversations

14min

Navigating the Art of Listening and Thought Management

4min

The Art of Listening in a Distracted World

18min

Most of us don’t know how to truly listen, and it’s causing all sorts of problems. Sean Illing is joined by journalist Kate Murphy, the author of You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters, to discuss what it means to be a good listener, the problems that are caused when we don’t listen to each other, and the positive impacts on our health when we do.

Host: Sean Illing (@seanilling), host, The Gray Area

Guest: Kate Murphy, author,You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters

References:

You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters by Kate Murphy (Celadon Books, 2020)
“This is your brain on communication” by Uri Hasson (TED, 2016)

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