The Gray Area with Sean Illing How to listen
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Apr 20, 2023 Kate Murphy, a journalist and author of "You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters," discusses the crucial yet overlooked art of listening. She highlights the difference between active listening and mere hearing, showing how superficial engagement leads to loneliness. Murphy advocates for audio-only conversations to foster intimacy, critiques the impact of technology on our listening habits, and emphasizes the importance of developing focused listening skills for deeper human connections.
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Turn Off Cameras for Better Listening
- For better listening and connection, turn off video cameras during conversations.
- Video calls create distractions and hinder genuine engagement.
The Rarity of True Listening
- People are often starved for genuine listening and may overshare when finally heard.
- They apologize after sharing, highlighting the rarity of true listening.
Psychedelic Listening
- Sean Illing recounts a period of intense listening after a psychedelic experience.
- He found it unnerved some people, accustomed to inattention.
