We often discount our ability to do hard things based on a mistaken belief that we've never been able to accomplish anything hard.
Don't assume the logic in your head is always actually logical - slow down and examine those beliefs.
Deep dives
Believing in the Ability to Do Hard Things
Sometimes we think we can't do hard things because we have a history of failure or we feel like certain tasks are too difficult for us. However, just because something is hard doesn't mean it's outside of our capabilities. We often underestimate ourselves and fail to recognize the hard things we've already accomplished. It's important to challenge these misconceptions and remind ourselves that we are capable of doing hard things.
Acknowledging Accomplishments and Overcoming False Logic
We tend to downplay our achievements and find ways to discredit our own work. We may think that certain tasks should be easy and feel like failures when we struggle with them. However, ADHD can make these tasks harder for us, and it's important to acknowledge that. It's crucial to recognize our strengths, give ourselves credit for what we have accomplished, and not let the perception of our failures undermine our confidence to take on new challenges.
Examining Beliefs and Building Resilience
Our own logic can sometimes be flawed, leading us to make unfounded conclusions and undermine our own abilities. It's important to slow down and examine our beliefs, questioning their validity and exploring alternative perspectives. By examining the hard things we have already overcome and acknowledging our successes, we build resilience and gain the confidence to tackle new challenges that come our way.
Last week we began this series on how to do hard things and looked specifically at how we define hard things and ways that we can work through some of our problems so that they can become more manageable.
This week we’re going to be continuing that conversation but with a lens that focuses on why it can be so hard for us to even attempt to do hard things. We’ll be looking at some of the misconceptions we have about doing hard things as well looking at how acknowledging the hard things we’ve done in the past can help us do more hard things in the present. Support me on Patreon Ask me a question on my Contact Page Find the show note at HackingYourADHD.com/hardthingspart2This Episode's Top Tips
We often discount our ability to do hard things from a mistaken belief that we’ve never been able to accomplish anything hard.
When we mistake failing at simple things for failing at doing hard things it can reinforce the idea that we can’t do hard things. Remember, just because something is simple doesn’t mean it isn’t hard.
Don’t assume the logic in your head is always actually logical. It is easy for us to make logical leaps that don’t hold up to reality - slow down and examine those beliefs. You don’t have to believe everything you think.
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