The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Moment 171: STOP DOING THIS! It's Ruining Your Sex Life
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Jul 19, 2024 
Alain de Botton, a Swiss-British philosopher renowned for integrating philosophy into daily life, shares insights on enhancing intimacy in relationships. He emphasizes that communication is key, revealing how issues in a couple's sex life often mirror broader relational problems. By reflecting on individual roles as partners and fostering trust, couples can overcome barriers. De Botton also discusses the emotional complexities of intimacy and the importance of humor in maintaining romantic attraction, showing that love thrives beyond mere sexual encounters.
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The Impact of Micro-Disappointments
- Stored anger from micro-disappointments affects intimacy.
- These disappointments, often seemingly trivial, build up and block desire.
Communicate Frustrations
- Discuss frustrations openly with your partner, even if they seem small.
- This helps clear resentment and improve intimacy.
The Child Within
- We often dismiss our frustrations as ridiculous, hindering communication.
- Acknowledge your inner child, who can get upset by seemingly insignificant things.